Moving Preparation Timeline
6-8 Weeks Before Your Move
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This is the time to start strategically planning your move, step-by-step, to alleviate the stress of last minute packing.
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Create a room where you can begin to store and organize packing supplies and other items that will assist you in your move. Group boxes by size so you will not have to fumble through heavy piles when packing your things.
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Now is the time to make travel arrangements for you and your family. Whether it be renting a car, scheduling a flight or reserving a hotel room, book it at a time that will give you flexibility in case anything goes awry.
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Contact your insurance agent to transfer medical, property, fire and auto insurance. Return anything you have borrowed from nearby friends or relatives and make sure to ask for your things back.
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Compile a list of phone numbers and addresses so that once you have moved in to your new home you will be able to easily access this information without the hassle of searching through the phone directory.
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Create a designated folder for moving related expenses where you can file all receipts. This will come in handy as many moving expenses are tax deductible.
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Obtain an IRS Change of Address form, Form 8822, by calling (800) 829-1040 or visiting the IRS website at www.irs.gov. You will be able to download and print form 8822 and most other IRS tax forms; e.g., Form 3903 to help deduct moving expenses.
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Notify schools in the old and new location and arrange for the transfer of school records and begin the process of registering in new schools.
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Collect all medical, dental and school records to ensure you do not forget to obtain them at a later date. Keep these in a safe place.
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Contemplate holding a garage sale at least two weeks prior to your move; this will help you save space while earning some extra. cash on the side.
4-5 Weeks Before You Move
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Contact or visit your local Post Office to obtain a Change of Address form. You can also obtain this form online at the postal service website by visiting www.usps.com
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Give a change of address to the following:
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Banks
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Schools
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Friends & family
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Insurance company
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Doctors & specialists
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Cellular phone company
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Credit card companies
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Subscriptions (Magazine, newspaper, etc.)
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By this point you should have already hired a mover and received an estimate. Check with your mover to confirm that all the details of the move are set. If you are packing on your own, make the proper arrangements and get the right supplies.
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Make the arrangements to connect and disconnect your cable, internet, electric and any other services you currently use. Dealing with this at an earlier date will prevent any date and time conflicts you may incur.
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You may have to switch banks because your current bank branches may be sparse in your new town. Investigate the popular banks in the area you will be living in so that you can close and open new bank accounts as needed.
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Check what the requirements are to receive a new driver's license and complete auto registration at your new motor vehicle location.
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If you will be making an international move, make sure your passport is up to date and has not expired. Passports generally take 3 weeks to process.
3 Weeks before Your Move
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It is now time to make final arrangements for transporting your car if you plan on doing so. If you are traveling by car, check to make sure your vehicle is in good shape for the trip.
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Investigate your secret hiding spots to search for any forgotten items. Collect valuable items such as jewelry or heirlooms and keep them separate from the rest of your packed belongings so that you do not leave them behind.
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Return any borrowed items, such as library books, and collect any clothing that you may have taken to be dry cleaned.
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Begin cleaning the various rooms in your house that have been emptied, such as closets, basements or attics to prepare for the new residents and to make sure you did not leave anything unpacked.
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Do you or your family members take any medications? If so, locate pharmacies in your new town that you can transfer prescriptions over to.
2 Weeks before Your Move
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At this point you should have a good sense of what items you will not be taking with you. This is a good time to organize a garage sale to earn some cash on the side from your unwanted belongings. You should also consider donating old clothing to a local charity or shelter - if you do, you may be eligible for a tax deduction.
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Resume packing any items you have not had a chance to pack yet. Your final week at home has the potential to be very stressful and you should prevent pushing things off until the last minute.
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Think about quick and easy meals you can prepare for your family while utilizing the remaining food in your refrigerator so that it does not go to waste.
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Make sure all scheduled deliveries (newspaper, groceries, etc.) have been canceled or redirected to your new home.
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Empty all lockers at school, work or at your gym.
1 Week before Your Move
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Before you move, mow your lawn one last time. Especially if your home will not be unoccupied after your departure.
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Mark any unmarked boxes as "Fragile," "Do not load," or "Load last" if you have not yet done so.
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if you are not going directly to your new home, ensure that your movers have an address or phone number to contact you at in the event that something goes wrong.
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empty, clean and defrost your refrigerator/freezer during this final week and use baking soda to rid it of any foul odors.
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Put together a moving day survival kit with items you will need for the trip and immediately when you arrive at your new home. These items include toilet paper, snacks, bottled water, dishes, toiletries, towels, etc.
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Notify the police in your town if your home will be uninhabited for a long period of time.
Kids and Relocation
Your family's move can be an exciting time for your children and for you. It can also be a stressful and sad time. Your child may have different feelings about your family's move: scared about going to a new school, excited about your new home, sad about leaving old friends or angry with you about moving.
Every year, one out of five American families move. One of the most important issues to anyone with kids is their reaction to the news that they're moving, and their adjustment to the new home. Being informed is very important to children. One of the worst mistakes we can make as adults is to assume that kids don't care or won't understand the details. Keeping them "in the loop," consulting them about choices whenever possible, and including them in the family game plan will work wonders toward their adjustment.
Helping Children of Different Ages Cope with Moving
Preschool children
Kids under the age of six may worry about being left behind, or being separated from their parents. If you go on an orientation or house-hunting trip beforehand without the children, it's important to reassure kids this age that you will be back; bring something unique back to them from the new town. It's very important for them to express their feelings and fears about the move. Give them a job to do -- have them be responsible for boxing up their favorite toys, and "labeling" their boxes with crayons and stickers.
Ages 6 to 12
Elementary age kids are usually most concerned with how the everyday routines of their lives are going to change. Showing them pictures, videos and magazines of their new home will help a lot, especially if you can find new places in advance for the things they like to do. If your child takes dance lessons, find & share information about the new dance studio she can go to. If he takes karate, or plays soccer or baseball... even if her favorite thing to do is the park or the pizza parlor, find these places in your new neighborhood and get brochures, pictures or videos.
Teenagers
These kids are most concerned with fitting in. They may react angrily to the move, even insist they're not going. This is usually due to the total lack of control they have over everything important in their lives-friends, school & jobs--being disrupted. These children can be very worried about making new friends, and what will be different in the new school. They are curious about the clothing, hairstyles, bicycles, cars, etc. that kids in the new city will have. Pictures of all these things are very helpful, so if you take an orientation trip be sure to take many detailed photos/videos of the schools they will be attending.
Other tips for making the transition
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Give young children an entertaining travel kit for the move.
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Give older children a diary for recording the trip & move.
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Give children of all ages a special address book & stationary set for keeping up with old friends.
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Take videos of the new home of the kids won't get to see it before the move.
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Arrive well before the movers so kids can explore and become acquainted first.
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Give children a chore to do, such as working on their room (younger), supervising little siblings (middle), and painting or arranging furniture (older kids).
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Take a break with the family as soon as possible to explore the museums, sights and recreation in your new city.
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Arrange a visit to new schools and a meeting with the teacher before the actual first day of attendance.
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Encourage the children to bring new friends home.